Incomplete

living in this world is so full of uncertainties, you'll never know what will happen the next minute or even the next second...
sometimes, things just happen before you even know it...
however, it's often too late when you realize the truth ...
the truth is what has happened can't be rewind...
life isn't like movie or music, we can't rewind it or undone it...
whatever done is done, whatever hurt is hurt ....
this is the reason why people always regret in the things they have done...
coz we never realize the impact or result of our doings...


truth vs lie
sometimes, knowing the truth is worst den being lied by someone...
however if you were to ask me, i would rather lie if the truth is unacceptable...
i understand that to keep someone in the dark is bad, but often a lie is better than telling the truth...
sometimes, knowing that it's a lie can also be hurting...
however if you were to ask me, i would rather not speak than to lie...
however if telling the truth, lying, and not speaking is not applicable... i might choose to leave...
often, people hate to be lied and kept in the dark ...
however, telling the truth can hurt 100 times more than lying...
so, to lie or to tell the truth ?

Lying is bad, but sometimes a lie is more beautiful than the truth... as the truth is often ugly...

i've been trying to understand myself for a long time...
most often, i'll be lost and unable to find the true me...
however, i always do things following my heart... neglecting what's beside me...
i do understand that i always do things ended up hurting people i care...
and often realize it after things can't be undone...
calling me a "jerk" or "bastard" is the best word i think...
this time, i did things against my principle and go with my feelings again...

a glass which is broken is unable to mend, even if it's mend, the cracks are still there... as it'll never be the same again...
a bucket of water which is poured away is unable to collect back, even if it's collected back, the amount or quality of it will never be the same again...
a piece of paper which is torn is unable to glue back, even if it's glued back, there are still holes... as it'll never return to the original...

Life is unrewindable once the play button is pressed....

Backstreet Boys, Incomplete ~

爱一人

如果你不爱一个人,
请放手.
好让别人有机会爱她.
如果你爱的人放弃了你,
请放开自己,
好让自己有机会爱别人.
有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,
有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.

人生中有许多种 .
但别让自己为一种伤害.
有些缘分是注定要失去的,
有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,

爱一个人不一定要拥有,
但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.
男人哭了是因为他真的爱了.
女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害,
我选择谎言;
如果谎言一种伤害,
我选择沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害,
我选择离开.

如果失去是苦，
你怕不怕付出 ,
如果迷乱是苦，
你会不会选择结束,
如果追求是苦，
你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,
如果分离是苦，
你要向谁倾诉,
好多事情都是后来才看清楚,
好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!