Thursday, May 7, 2009

Moving On


I always wonder how does every individual take relationships as ?
I do realize that everyone in this universe has their own unique mind which thinks and acts differently towards problems !
Well, relationships as in boys and girls which means coupled often adds greater meanings to those who're actually in the circle of love...
While someone embraced themselves into the circle of love, they often don't get to see the big picture of what is truly called a relationship or what's coming from it ...

The fact is, many of us take relationships stuffs too seriously till we often forget our priorities once we fall in love and tends to commit into it !
The problem often comes from the word commitment,,,
Most of the people nowadays do believe that once they're in love, it's once and for all, it's gonna be forever if possible !
But hell, how's that possible ? forever ?

I'm indeed a guy who believes in love, yes... true love !
but if you were to ask me about forever ? hell no !
I believes in my humble opinion, that every substance, events, anything in this world has a start and an end !
Imagine ?
People live and die.
Race starts and finish
Fuel full and empty
Everything in this world leads to an end in the future ...

I'm not trying to be pessimistic or negative! and of course i'm not the kind of negative thinker...
But realistically, the fact is that people never get to let go of their relationships !
once break up, its done and for all ....
To those who are single, heartbroken... i don't mean to be wicked by saying this...
Just think properly and positively about yourself ... if love is so great ?
why not learn to love yourself first before you throw yourself out to love someone or be loved by someone ?
Learn to commit to yourself before committing yourself to anyone else ....
many people in relationships tends to put too much responsibilities and commitment into their relationships therefore, when it comes to the end ... they either fall or crashed too hard !

Talking back about love, as what i mentioned above i do believe in love and i do believe in relationships !
However, i'm just trying to point out on what had actually run through my mind all this while ...

Being in love is the most wonderful thing in this world...
Being in a relationship requires commitment, yes ! but realize the situations and sort out the priorities ...
Being in love makes someone blind but please be strong enough to release the blindfold and look clearly !
Being in a relationship makes someone strong and happy, however, being out of it turns that someone into someone unrecognizable ...
Being in love requires determination, sincerity, passion and trust... abuse it and you're done !
Being in a relationship needs mutual respect and trust...

The truth is heartbreak really hurts !
Just try hard to pull yourself together , or even let someone else have the chance to mend it !
A human does not necessary need another to survive as human are born tough to know how to survive alone !

When it's time to let go, just let it go and move on ..... Life ahead is bright and full of uncertainties to explore into .... ^^ Live happily ....

3 comments:

idiotker said...

wow.. i see you changed your font colors. is better lolz..

i don't understand what message you getting across. i don't quite get what is love meh..

take care

NIc Jk said...

lolz... the one who's in it will not know what i'm tryin 2 get across ... :)

idiotker said...

is not the problem the one inside won't understand or what. i mean overall the whole thing i don't get it. lol, so are you trying to say you not in it so you able come up with this particular blog? =.=

anyway is clearer and clearer now ha..