Thursday, September 18, 2008

L-O-V-E != Love


if someone were to ask me about "what is love ?" i will tell him/her that love is about commitment, responsibility and care in general definition. However, if were to ask me to describe love in my own point of view, i will say that love is depending on one's heart, where one will know when love comes without any logical definition... Love comes and go without someone noticing it... it'll be gone forever once someone misses it... However, if one is able to read the signs about it arriving, one will be able to grab it and never let go...

L-O-V-E, Natalie Cole ~~

Sometimes, one will tell you that which belongs to you will be yours sooner or later, but i don't believe in this kinda nonsense....
Why do i call this nonsense ? it's because, nothing will be determined if one just sit there and wait... yea, you might call waiting as waiting for fate... (if you believe in fate) Yes, i do believe in fate... strongly, i believe that everything in this world, in life is fated, where who and who become friends, who and who become couple and who and who become enemy... However, i believe that when fate comes, one must learn to grab the fate... which pure waiting for fate is crap and useless ! To me, once fate arrives... if one is unable to see the signs and grab it, it'll be gone and not for temporary while its forever... which makes one regret in the future... Therefore, if you learn that fate has arrived ... where you think he/she is the right one... never let it go when you didn't even try ....

爱我别走, 周杰轮 ~~

In my point of view, as what i always tell/advice my friends ...
Trying to win someone's heart is actually the same as doing business ( if you understand how is business ) where the right amount of investments and effort will do the trick ;-) ... *confused* ? haha Talking about love, i will once again congratulate my sis as she had stepped into the sea of love being able to share happiness and woes with her husband which now i call him my bro-in-law... I witnessed my sis's wedding last sunday(7/9/2008), a memorable event of the year ! I'm happy, very happy that my sis has finally get married with her love one... I admit that i really enjoyed the moment of marriage where couples work hard for this very memorable once in a lifetime day ...

The very handsome groom and the utmost beautiful bride (my beloved sis)

There, as i had always tried to help my friends in their love relationship problems... i had gone through different types of cases where different people manages relationship differently where different relationships results in different outcomes...

Whether it is happy or unhappy, i always take it as a lesson or guideline of my life where i'll use it as reference if one day the situation occur within mine...

Love is sweet, if one knows what it is ... however, love can be bitter if one feels the core of it ...

4 comments:

xiiAoen said...

Oi! is伦not轮! =.="
silly silly

Lala Online said...

halo.... miss u so much~ wahaha~
how r u? long time no c... y u still 瘦瘦的。。。haiz...
jz wan said hi to u only~ take care ya~ u r still handsome... hehe~

huifen said...

ur english very deep lei~~~~
hehe~~ love is love~~~
love is powerful~~
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